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Midway through Elizabeth Colomba and Aurélie Lévy’s new graphic novel, Queenie: Godmother of Harlem, the viewer is confronted with a harrowing scene. The protagonist, a young Afro-Caribbean im...
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Summer Mix 2023 🌱 Best Vocals Deep Remixes Of Popular Songs 🌱Coldplay, Ellie Goulding, Selena Gomez
Summer Mix 2023 🌱 Best Vocals Deep Remixes Of Popular Songs 🌱Coldplay, Ellie Goulding, Selena Gomez
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Elton John, Dua Lipa – Cold Heart (PNAU Remix) (Official Video)
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Kim Petras & Nicki Minaj – Alone (Official Music Video)
Miley Cyrus - Flowers (Official Video)
Miley Cyrus – Flowers (Official Video)
Responses have been edited for length and clarity "We can't, our cats are allergic." — Jamie Blair "There are many things I'm good at doing, like juggling and removing stains, that I would never want to do all day and night for the rest of my life." —Genevive Bjorn "I'm 68 now, and my standard line for the last couple of decades is 'Oh! I forgot!'" — Trudy DiLeo "My husband and I decided not to have children long before we decided to get married. Someone: you know gay couples can have kids too?! Our response: 'We know; we keep trying to get pregnant, but nothing sticks.'" — Nicholas Tollar, Jr. "Hell, I can't even keep plants alive!" — Joan Chrislip "Children deserve someone who loves them and enjoys taking care of them, no matter the physical, mental, or financial toll — and that's why I will never have them." — Rosie Wilt "I would embarrass them too much." — Barb Bush "I never felt the desire to be a mother. I love the freedom of not having children. — Tracy Beasley "Just because I have ovaries doesn't mean I have to use them." — Kristin Charlton "I can't imagine why you'd ask such a personal question." — Penny Bonkowski "There are people in this world meant to be moms and dads, and there are people in this world meant to be aunts and uncles. The challenge in life is to recognize which one you are meant to be. I am meant to be an uncle."— Bruckner Chase "I love the life I have and the family I've built. There's nothing missing." — Amber Stockham "At a bridal shower early on in my marriage, one of [my mother-in-law's] relatives asked me 'When are you having children?' My mother-in-law, who was next to me, gently put her hand on my hand and answered for me (still the best response I've ever heard) 'You know, some of the happiest marriages have no children.'" — Nancy Jo Seaton "Children just aren't in the cards for us." — Jennifer Rowe "Humor is generally how my husband and I talk to others about our choice to not have kids. If people keep at it, I say that we both have many reasons for why we don't want kids, but the only reason that truly matters is that we don't want them." — Shelby Cooper "I prefer to borrow the children of others, spoil them, then send them home." — Sare Anuszkiewicz "This isn't a haircut; this is my life and the choices I'm making for it. If I'd said I wanted children, you wouldn't tell me to grow out of it." — Missy Ballinghoff "I love my husband, free time, and privacy too much to share them." — Elizabeth Gray "I'm an artist, I don't have time to raise a family." — Cheryl Kandel Gimson "I often get the comment, 'But you'd be such a good mom.' And I always just say, 'Thanks.' Not elaborating or explaining myself generally results in people changing the subject." — Lauren Zettlemoyer
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Angela L. Harris is child-free by choice and says people often make comments about her decision or want to know all the details. “I should write a book about all these comments,” she says....
The ACLU says the new dress code violates federal law
Brian Klosterboer, an attorney with the ACLU of Texas, told The Texas Tribune that the new dress code violates Title VII of the federal Civil Rights Act, which bans employment discrimination based on one's sexual orientation or gender identity, in addition to the First Amendment's right to free expression. "State agencies should be focused on doing their jobs and not discriminating against their own employees and trying to make political statements through their agency regulations," Klosterboer told The Tribune. "There is no important governmental interest that this can meet," he added. The new dress code comes on in the wake of several anti-LGBTQ bills and laws that have been introduced in the state over the last few years. Last year, Texas Gov. Greg Abbott directed the state's Department of Family and Protective Services to investigate certain gender-affirming care for transgender children as possible child abuse. In 2021, Abbott signed into law House Bill 25, which requires all public school students to compete in interscholastic athletic competitions based solely on their assigned sex at birth. The law, which went into effect in January 2022, made Texas the 10th state to enact similar legislation. Last year, nearly 300 anti-LGBTQ bills were filed during state legislative sessions. However, only 29 of those bills were signed into law.9(MDI4MzgyNTA3MDE0NzkwOTg2NTAxYWU0Yg000))
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Interview Highlights
On collaborating with Beyoncé on Renaissance Brittany Luse: You were recruited by Beyoncé to work on her album, Renaissance, and you produced "Cozy" and "Alien Superstar." What was it like working with Beyoncé on that album and sharing your experiences of the scenes that made you? Honey Dijon: Well, first of all, I had to pick my jaw off the ground when that call came. I was like, "How does Beyoncé know about me?" It was so humbling to feel that the work, that your lived experience, was being acknowledged by someone of that caliber. One of the things that I was told from her team was that she wanted to make this a dance record and she wanted to go to the true source of Chicago house music. I think of so many people that have laid the groundwork for me to be able to express that. You know, I think of the Frankie Knuckles and the Ron Hardys and the Derrick Carters and all of these amazing artists that have gone before me. For Beyoncé to acknowledge that was just so gratifying, and it made me proud. I had to pat myself on the back. My mother always says, "You may see my glory, but you don't know my story." And I just thought about all of the years of being told, "no," or what I was doing was being misunderstood. So when that call came, it was such a proud moment for me. On the parties she went to as a teenager Luse: You are from Chicago's South Side. And Chicago was famously the birthplace for warehouse music, house music, for short. And that's where you started going to warehouse parties. Were you technically old enough to be out partying like did you have to sneak out of the house? Dijon: No! I lied and snuck out of the house, like most teenagers do, saying I was going to study homework at a friend's house and we would go out. And you could get a fake I.D. So I was a 13 year old dressing like I was 25. Luse: Talk to me about what those parties were like. What was the vibe? Dijon: Unfiltered abandon. You just had, you know, all this teenage energy and angst and community. And it was just electric. I always tell people, "You ain't been to a party 'til you've been to a party like how Black folks party." Because Black folks party were their entire being. Luse: It's true. Dijon: From the rooter to the to tooter. From the hair follicles to the toenails. We use every part of our body. On DJ'ing her own parents' parties Luse: Talk to me about the music that you would play at those parties. Dijon: So I would play my hour and then they would put me to bed. My bedtime was like 9 o'clock so I could play from 8 to 9. Luse: Before it got totally jumping, right. Dijon: But then we would go to bed, and around 11 o'clock, we would start hearing all this laughter and cursing, and we could smell the cigarette smoke and glasses breaking. And it was just like, what is this world? And we would sit on the top of the steps, and that's where I would hear all the music. You know, Michael Jackson, Chaka Khan. Minnie Riperton, the Isley Brothers. There was lots of Marvin Gaye. I like to call it Black consciousness music because it was post-civil rights. So those were the records I would play. Luse: So you're in your parents' house. You play music for their parties. Are you starting, at that age, to notice how people are responding to different songs? Dijon: Oh, yeah. I got off on just sharing the music. This sort of sense of fulfillment that just hasn't left me. I think I was just born to do this. On creating spaces of liberation through music Luse: Have you met and/or seen people be able to grow and find themselves in those late night parties that you DJ'd, the way that you were able to at that point in your life? Dijon: Well, in their own way, yes, of course. I mean, I see a new generation of kids coming up and I can tell that they feel a bit more liberated just by my existence and what I stand for. I've had people tell me they've met their spouses and future partners on my dance floor. "Oh, my boyfriend just proposed to me on the dance floor, and I wanted you to know." The club is community for me. And it always will be. So one of the things that I always tell people when they want to become a DJ, I say, "Well, why?" What is it that you want to do as a DJ? Do you want to contribute to culture? Do you have a voice that you want to connect people [with]? I build community through sound. And I try to create spaces of liberation.9(MDI4MzgyNTA3MDE0NzkwOTg2NTAxYWU0Yg000))
2022 was a banner year for Honey Dijon. She co-produced two of the fiercest tracks on Beyoncé’s latest record, Renaissance, and she released her own studio album this fall, called Black Girl M...
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The North London-based rapper Little Simz knows her worth. She may be an introvert, but she isn’t faint-hearted, and on “Gorilla” she’s keeping score: “Name one time wher...

